Fear and discomfort around bondage and kink typically come out of misunderstanding what BDSM isand is not. It kind of feels like there is a people who do kink camp and then a vanilla people camp. It really isnt this way at all. Kink is super accessible to everyoneand a lot of us have either tried it or wanted to. If youve been having fantasies about tying your partner up, getting spanked, being spanked, getting blindfolded, etc., that is completely normal.